Jesus Does Not Give Up on us, Even When We Fail

Pilar Azmani • September 17, 2024

Jesus Does Not Give Up on us, Even When We Fail

 

 

We continue to read and reflect upon the gospel according to Mark this liturgical year. I like Mark very much. And no, it is not because Mark is the shortest and first written gospel. It’s because I like the method in which Mark chose to spread the message about Jesus Christ. In his gospel, Mark references all the followers of Jesus as weak in following Jesus’ teachings and failing to follow his mission. In fact, the disciples and those who followed Jesus failed all the time. Thus, the gospel of Mark is a really a story of failure.  

 

There are many examples of Jesus’s followers and the disciples failing. Jesus’ closest disciples often did not understand his parables and recommendations. Their faith was frequently questioned and they often feared for their physical life. They betrayed Jesus during Holy Week and they left their Master alone to suffer and die. Peter denied Jesus three times during his trial. Additionally, many other followers of Jesus did not grasp the message of Jesus and failed to follow him as well. Lastly, even women, the most faithful followers of Jesus failed because they did not recognize Jesus after his resurrection. They thought he was the gardener. Because of this Jesus often expressed his frustration and disappointment after talking to his disciples in the gospel of Mark.  

 

We see Jesus’ frustration in today’s gospel passage assigned to the 25th Sunday in Ordinary time. Jesus made a lot of effort to explain to his closest disciples that he was going to suffer and die. To explain that His mission must end on Calvary, where he would die on the cross. Unfortunately, his disciples did not understand Jesus’ point. They ignored the message, which was important to Jesus. Instead, they argued among themselves “who is the greatest.” In his disappointment, Jesus showed them a child as an example of humility and meekness.  

 

Why did Mark choose this kind of method to write about Jesus and his message? Why does Mark show Jesus’ disciples as weak and fragile?  

 

Mark writes his gospel in 60AD. It was a time of terrible persecution of the first Christian community by Nero and Vespasian. Christians were tortured and martyred, families destroyed and others were hunted. Many of the followers of Jesus were not ready or willing to suffer and die for Christ. They betrayed their faith and left the Christian community. After, there was a dispute and division among the believers, “if those who failed can still call themselves Christians and if they are worthy to follow Jesus anymore.”  

 

Mark writes his gospel to this kind of community of believers and in these circumstances of religious persecution. Mark understands the pain and dilemma of persecuted Christians. Mark’s intent is to make a clear point that it is OK to fail and still be a disciple of Jesus. In the last chapter of Mark, the Risen Christ calls his disciples to meet in Galilee (Mark 16:7). It is a very significant call. Although the disciples failed completely, Jesus did not give up on them, and they did continue his mission from there.  

 

I like the gospel of Mark because we as human beings can relate to failing. We are all similar to Jesus’ followers and we often fail. Mark brings us good news though, that we are allowed to fail and still come back and follow Jesus again. Let’s be grateful for the gospel of Mark and the Good News which encourages us to follow Jesus closely and never give up on Jesus and our mission.

 

       Fr. Andrzej

 

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